{"id":4163,"date":"2014-07-02T18:38:43","date_gmt":"2014-07-02T23:38:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/?p=4163"},"modified":"2014-07-02T18:43:03","modified_gmt":"2014-07-02T23:43:03","slug":"self-employment-and-people-with-disabilities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/self-employment-and-people-with-disabilities\/","title":{"rendered":"Self-Employment and People with Disabilities"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m looking forward to speaking at the Turtle Mountain Disabilities Conference<\/a> and not just because they have one of the best conference logos I have ever seen.<\/p>\n

\"Turtle<\/a><\/p>\n

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This topic reminds me of a joke my friend told me. His specialty is geriatrics and one day one of his patients came to him and asked for Viagra, which if you have watched late night TV in the past 10 years you might know is a, um performance-enhancing drug, for men .\u00a0 Jake said, to him,<\/p>\n

\u201cSir, you don\u2019t need medication. I\u2019ve met your ex-wife, and believe me, she didn\u2019t turn me on, either.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

What does this have to do with self-employment? Someone asked me why I am always talking about employment for people with disabilities. Don\u2019t I know how high the unemployment rate is? Don\u2019t I know that it\u2019s far higher on reservations? Don\u2019t I know that many people, maybe most, aren\u2019t interested in working? And that reminds me of this clip from a podcast I heard recently.<\/p>\n

Imagine this offer:<\/strong><\/p>\n

You will spend 8 hours a day doing some task that could be done equally well by a machine – handing a cup of coffee to strangers, mopping a floor. It will present few opportunities for you to grow, physically, emotionally, mentally. You won’t make enough money to buy a home or many of the other things you might like to own. You’ll probably take public transportation to get there and back because you won’t be able to afford a reliable car. After working all day, you won’t have much time or energy on the weekends to do the things you like, whether it is hunting or going to the movies and you won’t have much money to do those things either, so you’ll probably just watch TV.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

That will be your life – hand out cups of coffee , ride the bus, watch TV – and you’ll continue doing that until you die or they find a machine that can do your job cheaper and fire you.<\/em><\/p>\n

How can anyone turn down an offer like that?<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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It’s common to hear that people with disabilities don’t want to work, or that youth don’t want to work, or whatever group we are putting down today, and to blame that on lack of work ethic. I don’t think so. Because, you know what, that offer doesn\u2019t turn me on, either.<\/p>\n

I want to talk about self-employment from a personal perspective. I\u2019m not funded by any grant that promotes starting a business so I\u2019m not going to pretend that it\u2019s any easier than it is. On the other hand, I started my first business in 1985, as R & R Consulting, and recently incorporated my fourth company, 7 Generation Games, so it is possible.<\/p>\n

What I hope to achieve \u00a0is to convince more people that self-employment is a very realistic goal for many people with disabilities, although it\u2019s not for every person with a disability, just like it isn\u2019t for every person without a disability. Just me getting up and saying something once is probably not going to make a difference for many people, if anyone. What IS going to make a difference is the people they see every day, their parents, friends, relatives, counselors or teachers. Those are the people I hope to convince as much as the people with disabilities themselves.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 The first thing you need to start a business is \u2026. Stop and think to yourself, what do you really need?<\/strong> Go ahead. I can wait. Email or text a friend and ask. You’re already reading this on some sort of electronic thing-a-ma-jig anyway. I\u2019m going to tell you a few stories, during which time you will probably conclude I have forgotten my point entirely.<\/p>\n

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When I was young, my whole life was partying and sports, occasionally interrupted by school. Back then, I wondered what old people did when they had too much common sense, responsibilities and aches and pains to be running around. Now I know. They sit around with their friends and talk about life, the problems in the world and how all of them could be solved if people just listened to us. At least, that\u2019s what Willie Davis and I do.<\/p>\n

Lately, we\u2019ve been discussing\u00a0why is it that some people with disabilities become so successful while others are far from meeting their goals? We don\u2019t know the answer to that question, but I\u2019m scheduled for 45 minutes, so I\u2019m going to talk about it anyway.<\/p>\n

\"Willie<\/a><\/p>\n

Who has a disability? Is it one of those things like art, where you know it when you see it? Not so much. This was brought home to me in a couple of examples. Willie and I were discussing the lack of disability advocates on reservations and how that may be due to not many people with disabilities having the education and experience to be involved in activities like running a conference like this. We were trying to think of someone at Spirit Lake, and after a few minutes we realized, oh yeah, Erich Longie is a vocational rehabilitation \u201csuccess story\u201d. Now, maybe if you just walked by Erich in the airport when he was walking with two canes because he had a really long way to go through the terminal, you\u2019d think, \u201cThere goes a person with a disability.\u201d<\/p>\n

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However, I can guarantee you would never think of that if you knew him. Willie and I have both known Erich well over 20 years, he\u2019s one of my best friends, I was at his graduation when he was the first enrolled member to receive a doctorate, he was my boss when he was tribal college president, we founded a company together and when asked to name someone on the Spirit Lake Nation who had the education and experience to be a disability advocate \u2013 I didn\u2019t think of him.\u00a0 Neither did Willie, so it\u2019s not just me.<\/p>\n

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If you know Erich, when you think of him, probably one of the first things is he\u2019s very family-oriented. He was a single father for many years, and now he\u2019s raising his grandchildren. He was a major force in the fight against the Sioux nickname. He\u2019s been quite politically involved over the years, particularly in education, as school board president, member of the tribal college board. He\u2019s been immensely involved in American Indian education \u2013 adult basic education instructor, Even Start Director, elementary school teacher, college academic vice-president, written a masters thesis and dissertation on issues in Indian education, published articles in academic journals. He\u2019s an avid pool player, drives like a stunt double for the Dukes of Hazzard (or Grand Theft Auto, if you\u2019re too young to remember that), he\u2019s survived the Marine corps, cancer, alcoholism, the death of his son and an exceptional number of ex-wives. All of this maybe explains why it took Willie and I about twenty minutes of trying to think of someone with a disability to say, \u201cOh, yeah, Erich was in a car accident and walks with a cane, sometimes two.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"Erich<\/a><\/p>\n

Erich is unusual, but he\u2019s not unique.<\/p>\n

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A few months ago, an old friend came to one of my daughter\u2019s fights. Tina took the 4 a.m. bus from Los Angeles instead of flying out the night before because her mom had the flu and she wanted to make sure she was all right before she left town. Let me tell you a few things about Tina. She is a vocational rehabilitation counselor, has a black belt in judo, she is going back to school to get her PhD. – and she is always late. I\u2019m always late, too, so if I KNOW that you are always late, it means you are getting there after me, so you must always be REALLY late, and she is.<\/p>\n

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Not long ago, someone asked me who I was waiting for, and I said,<\/p>\n

\u201cMy friend, Tina. You know her right? You know what it is about her?\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The other person just went off,<\/p>\n

\u201cOh, yes, she\u2019s blind, right? I just think she is so inspirational. It\u2019s so amazing how she lives in her own home, travels the world, graduated from college. She\u2019s just so inspiring. Is that what you were going to say?\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And I said,<\/p>\n

\u201cNo, I was going to say that she can be kind of a pain in the ass how she complains about everything <\/em>and she\u2019s always late, but you\u2019ve kind of ruined it now.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I told Tina this later and she agreed,<\/p>\n

\u201cYeah, I do complain a lot, don\u2019t I? I should work on that.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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I didn\u2019t find it particularly inspirational that Tina got on a plane and went wherever she wanted to go any more than I found it inspirational that Willie Davis is part of a group that organized a conference that is now a model for events on other reservations or that Erich Longie earned a doctorate. They are all smart, hard-working people. Why wouldn\u2019t<\/em> they do these things? I need to take a plane to get to the conference that’s held in Belcourt, North Dakota\u00a0and no one was inspired by me and said, \u201cOoh, look at her, she managed to get to the airport.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

There is a point here, other than that possibly I\u2019m not the best friend.<\/p>\n

So, here is my other question \u2026 What is a major factor in successful employment of people with disabilities?<\/strong><\/p>\n

One of the reasons that all of these people who I mentioned are successful is that they are surrounded by people who don\u2019t just expect them to be successful but take it for granted.<\/p>\n

Whether it is South Dakota, Washington, D.C. or Alaska, if Erich and I are doing a presentation together, I just assume he will show up and do his part. When I came to Belcourt, I had no doubt that I would be on the program, the conference would be well-organized, I would have my hotel room reserved. I got mad at Tina for being late all of the time because I knew she could do better.<\/p>\n

These examples show two parts to being a success. One is not letting your disability define you and the other is being around people who don\u2019t either.<\/p>\n

You might say education is a major factor in success. Yes, everyone I mentioned has a degree, but they didn\u2019t start out with an education. They DID start out with the assumption that they could go and get a college degree.<\/p>\n

So, am I saying that all people \u2013 with or without disabilities \u2013 need to be successful is a positive attitude?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s certainly not all they need, but it\u2019s a good place to start.<\/p>\n

If you majored in psychology and were in argumentative mood, you might argue that there is a lot of research that shows that attitudes do not predict behavior very well. You could point to people who say they want to lose weight, get a job or any of a number of other goals and yet who take no steps toward \u00a0meeting those goals. What about THAT, Dr. Smartypants?<\/p>\n

I’m glad you asked that question. Tune in tomorrow for the answer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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