{"id":809,"date":"2010-10-11T00:49:25","date_gmt":"2010-10-11T05:49:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/?p=809"},"modified":"2010-10-11T00:58:36","modified_gmt":"2010-10-11T05:58:36","slug":"ted-x-american-riviera-thinking-different","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/ted-x-american-riviera-thinking-different\/","title":{"rendered":"Ted x American Riviera: Thinking Different"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just got back from the <a href=\"http:\/\/tedxamericanriviera.com\/\">Tedx American Riviera<\/a>. The American Riviera (Riviera apparently being an ancient Indian word meaning &#8220;place with nice weather and scenery that is full of rich people&#8221;) was held in Santa Barbara.<\/p>\n<p>I liked the TED Talks I saw on youtube and Eric Greenspan had recommended it on Twitter, and he usually has good ideas so I thought &#8220;What the hell- &#8221; which is my main motivation for just about everything I do.<\/p>\n<p>It was not what I expected. That being said, if you have a chance to go to any of the TED Talks, I recommend it.<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/\">TED originally stood for Technology Entertainment Design<\/a>, and I expected more Technology. That being said, what technology that was discussed was way cool. I most liked Jamey Marth&#8217;s talk on nanomedicine, Yulan Wang&#8217;s on health care robotics and Debra Lieberman&#8217;s on health care games. Not only did I like Jay Freeman&#8217;s talk on jailbreaking the iPhone but it garnered me major &#8220;coolness points&#8221; with both my children and my husband. When you have three daughters in their twenties, coolness points are rare, so thank you, Jay.<\/p>\n<p>The most interesting (to me) person I met was Don Oparah. His company, <a href=\"http:\/\/vaiglobal.com\/\">VAI Global,<\/a> seems to be exactly what I was looking for, sort of a Facebook for grown-ups. I just signed up for it.<\/p>\n<p>Well, obviously, I liked all the technology talks. There was more on environment and sustainability than I expected, and also a lot more of the sort of &#8220;live your bliss&#8221; new age-y stuff. I&#8217;m not a very touchy-feely person but some of it was worth thinking about. Certainly the speaker on the 100 reasons not to have an affair was thought-provoking. In short, he said people have excuses to have affairs like &#8220;We never talk&#8221; &#8220;Our sex life is boring.&#8221; His suggestion was that you&#8217;d be a lot better off trying to build the relationship you want with the person to whom you are married than find it somewhere else. If you never talk, well &#8211; TALK! \u00a0He acknowledged it may not be simple &#8211; but hey, have you ever tried divorce?<\/p>\n<p>As far as &#8220;wanting less&#8221; and trying to consume less &#8211; I thought those were terrific messages but I was not the only person who noted the irony of that message delivered on California&#8217;s coastline of multi-million dollar homes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/coast.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-810\" title=\"coast\" src=\"http:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/coast.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"591\" height=\"246\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/coast.jpg 591w, https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/coast-300x124.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 591px) 100vw, 591px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you&#8217;re going to pick one group to tell to consume less, this is certainly a good place to start.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, photographer Chris Orwig had the most stunning visuals in his presentation (duh).<\/p>\n<p>I was least looking forward to Shaun Tomson&#8217;s presentation. In fact, I almost skipped it. Yeah, he was a world surfing champion. I was a world judo champion. Not that becoming world champion isn&#8217;t a hell of a ride &#8211; but hey, I already know that story. I don&#8217;t want to ruin it for you but let me just say I was riveted to my seat during his talk and drove straight home to see my little girl. Next on my list is to buy his book.<\/p>\n<p>The only disappointment in the event is that there was not that much discussion. I mean, there were random people I struck up conversations with who were really interesting and nice, but I expected some type of organized discussion &#8211; discuss with people around you after each talk, or each hour. Instead, it was one (very interesting) talk right after another. During lunch, I was very amused by several people who spent the entire time checking their email and text messages at the table. I can only conclude that they must have been VERY important. <\/p>\n<p>The vision wall was a very cool idea. I heard that was Don Oparah&#8217;s idea also so double interesting-cool points for him.<\/p>\n<p>Still, it was well worth going. The non-technology talks were interesting because they brought up ideas I normally would not have thought about in the course of the day &#8211; or month. Some ideas, I am still thinking about &#8211; like the simple joy of being able to kiss my daughter goodnight when she has fallen asleep on the couch watching some stupid vampire show I told her not to watch.<\/p>\n<p>Driving home I was reminded of the line from Oliver Wendell Holmes.<br \/>\n<em><br \/>\n&#8220;A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yeah, it was very much like that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just got back from the Tedx American Riviera. The American Riviera (Riviera apparently being an ancient Indian word meaning &#8220;place with nice weather and scenery that is full of rich people&#8221;) was held in Santa Barbara. I liked the TED Talks I saw on youtube and Eric Greenspan had recommended it on Twitter, and&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-809","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dr-de-mars-general-life-ramblings"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/809","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=809"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/809\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":812,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/809\/revisions\/812"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=809"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=809"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejuliagroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=809"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}